- Eric A. Meyer & Estelle Weyl. CSS: The Definitive Guide. 4th ed.
- Neal Stephenson. Cryptonomicon.
- Charles T. Munger. Poor Charlie’s Almanac.
Reading With Kid:
Adam Price suggested this idea in He’s Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe in Himself. I read this last year and highly recommend for folks with teen-age boys. I gather a laundry list of possible titles. He picks. We read the selection concurrently (or nearly concurrently) and then we have something to talk about other than, “Did you get your homework done tonight?”
- Douglas Adams. The Hithchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy.
On Deck (the Short List):
- Daniel Kahneman. Thinking Fast and Slow.
- Atul Gawande. Being Mortal.
- Niccolo Machiavelli. The Prince.
- Robert Wright. Why Buddhism Is True.
- William Sloan Coffin. Credo.
- Lao Tsu. Tao Te Ching. As good a “Theory of Everything” as you’ll ever find.
- Richard Feynman. Six Easy Peaces. Six of the easiest-to-chew physics lectures from the Feynman Lectures on Physics, 1963. Here’s a basic understanding of fundamental physical laws of the universe. You need not be a physicist, rocket scientist or brain surgeon to understand these. (Chapter 6 involves some advanced mathematics, but you need not be able to follow the equations to understand the principles they prove.)
- Chris Voss. Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It. Voss was the Lead International Kidnapping Negotiator for the FBI. This book is how he did it. The insights here are huge. Like anything else, to actually do it requires practice. This explanation of the principles gives you a place to start practicing. I wish I’d read this (and started practicing) years ago.
- Daniel Pink. When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing. A few years ago I read Dan’s previous book, Drive, and have been a lurking fan ever since. When addresses the question, “If everything is timing how do you figure out the right timing?” In an easily accessible way, Dan lays out some of the best research about the why of when — from why you get that foggy feeling in the afternoon, to why you’re more likely to run a marathon when you’re 49, to why choirs and crew teams perform better in sync than any of the individuals can alone.
- Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant. Option B. Not what I expected when I signed on for this one. I had expected it to be psychological research about creating alternative strategies when unexpected things happen precluding following through with plans in progress. It’s sort of about that: it’s Sheryl Sandberg’s memoir of coping with life after the death of her husband, drawing on psychological insights from Adam Grant. As such, it’s much heavier reading than I’d expected and focused specifically on strategies for coping with major life losses. Still worth the read.
- Marcus Aurelius. Meditations. Trans. by Gregory Hays. “Everyone” seems to say that if you want to know about the Stoics, read Marcus Aurelius. And the Meditations does give you a pretty good feel for what Stoicism is about. What I found just as interesting is what “the most powerful man in the world” in his time was writing in his diaries. Turns out he was mostly depressed and lonely at the top, and trying to talk himself out of being afraid of death. This edition’s introductory essay by Gregory Hays is half the length of the book, and it also is nearly as interesting as the Meditations themselves.
- George Orwell. 1984. With Trump’s election last year, I read Animal Farm and made a start at a couple other dystopian novels: Richard K. Morgan’s Altered Carbon and Margaret Atwood’s Handmaid’s Tale, neither of which I managed to finish. So many commentators have called the past year Orwellian, it seemed the thing to do, and not just for me. 1984 was unavailable (and perhaps is still unavailable) at the little public library down the street. It was out of stock the few times I actually wandered into a book store last year. Having now finally read it, we are not there yet. Not even close. There are enough people who still regard Trump as a cruel and disastrous joke, and we are still allowed to say so openly. And Big Brothers of the moment Corporations rather than Communists — the Amazon Alexa, constantly listening to everything, and the Roku TVs and Google, tracking everything we see.
- Yuval Hoah Harari. Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind. This is a great read, smart in a lot of ways. One of its most powerful ideas is the extent of things we treat as “real” are socially constructed fictions. So, for example, religion. But also, law, nations, and money. More provocatively, race and gender. Fictional doesn’t necessarily mean false. These fictions are what have enabled sapiens to go from unremarkable species to taking over the planet. Whether that’s been good for the planet, or even for most individual sapiens is still an open question. Harari also speculates on where technology may take us from here — that sapiens are close to becoming gods: “dissatisfied and irresponsible gods who don’t know what they want.” Apparently, the only hope Harari sees for the future is that we evolve into something better.
Abandoned: (a.k.a. not worth finishing)
- Daniel A. Helminiak. The Transcended Christian. Quit after Chapter 10. The first few chapters that deal with how fundamentalism gets it wrong are a good review. Helminiak’s personal experience of being a gay Roman Catholic priest is a 1st hand window into that world (although he implies that his previous books are more focused on that — so maybe they’d be better). By Chapter 6 he’s moved on to resolving the miracle accounts of the Gospel into modern therapeutic terms, but the theology is less than compelling.